On this day each year, we as a nation gather in celebration, to enjoy a meal and give thanks to the many blessing bestowed upon us. For most, it's a day of overindulgence and laughter, intersected with naps and shopping. Our hearts are lighter and we give more freely of our time and resources. All of which are good and necessary things. I am thankful for my family, friends and employment.
For others, this day will serve as a reminder...of failed adventures and unachieved goals. It will be a harbringer of stress and anxiety, another dark streak in a season filled with depression.With nearly eight million US citizens unemployed and of that portion; 690,000 of those folks are homeless. It's easy to see that our nation as a whole, has work to do. I am thankful for the volunteers that strive to combat the hungry and the destitute.
As always, there are uniformed men and woman both here and abroad, sacrificing their time with loved ones to protect our way of life and our freedoms. They willingly place themselves in harms way to safeguard our streets and borders every hour of every day. For all of them, I am especially thankful.
On this day we give thanks...to our forebears for their vision and willingness to forge a new nation. For all the small things...the laughter of a child, the warmth of a hug and the laughter of family and friends; we are grateful.
It is my intention to remember each of these, not just on this day but every day. To be humble and grateful for that which we take for granted. Shelter, food in abundance and the love of a spouse and health...for all that we give such little thought too...I am thankful.
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Monday, May 25, 2015
The Fallen
The Fallen
On this long weekend above all
others, most Americans gather to enjoy the start of summer, shrugging off the
last effects of winter and breaking out the BBQ grills and summer toys. Many do
thank service members on this day…mistakenly and good naturedly.
For those whom served this is
hopefully meet with grace, regardless of what your feelings might be… for this
is not our day. It is reserved for our brother and sisters that sacrificed all.
For their families, who know the pain of promises lost and uncertain futures.
For us, we veterans; this day of
remembrance is bittersweet…of the hardships shared and the camaraderie that is
found nowhere else in human existence.
We have the same questions, with no easy answers; as the families and
those feelings are often compounded by the guilt of survival.
What all of us must keep foremost
in our thoughts is this…our friends and family members, those brave warriors who
gave their all, did so freely and without remorse or hesitation. For God and
country? Perhaps in part but mostly for those whom stood beside them united in
the ideal of right over wrong and the certainty that those basic freedoms must
be protected and safeguarded from those who would do it harm.
On this day, I thank their
families. The children most especially, who will grow up without fathers and
mothers. Please know that their sacrifice was not in vain and that the world is
both safer and richer for having had them in it.
I would ask that on this day, we
each honor that by extending a helping hand to those families still struggling
with such monumental loss, remembering that our freedoms are rights earned thru
sacrifice, not inalienable privilege.
For myself, I am honored to have
served amongst them.
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Sunday, March 8, 2015
Perception And Probabilty
As writers we're happiest when the words are flowing at a breakneck pace. When the muse isn't simply speaking but screaming for our attention, hopping up and down and gesturing wildly like a man caught in the throes of a grand mall seizure! For those rare moments, the pages pile up and the word counts soar...it's AWESOME...but for each storm there is a calm and of course the inevitable wreckage created in its passage.
So what is writers wreckage you ask? Composition debris...especially when we're on fire! We all have these at some point ...plot holes, unresolved threads, inconstancies in charator or story. Too much filler...too little dialouge or anything that fails to progress or more importantly, drops the reader OUT OF THE STORY!
As the creators of our worlds we take liberties with reality and thats ok...to a point BUT when we sacrifice believability simply because its convienant or it "makes" the story work, we cheat ourselves and our readers. A hard core criminal suddenly has a change of heart and becomes compassionate for a stranger...a little old lady takes down a SWAT team...a top notch investagator 'forgets' a basic procedure. These are real scenes from published works, that made me (and many others, by the reviews) pause and throw the red BS flag!
It didn't sound real...it was a wave of the magic wand...the whole thing was a dream kindia resolution that drives readers AWAY.
As writers we know what the backstory is...we KNOW how these things happened and have rationalized it; to. by. damn. WORK! This is why it's vitally important to get an outside perspective. Let a Beta reader, a trusted colleague, someone you trust to give you unbiased feedback, and to review your work before you send it for submission. In the fictional genre, probability is the meat of our stories...what IF, is our hook...that which sets our stories apart and makes them uniquely our own.
What we must not do is give in to the temptation of finishing by taking the easy path...find a solution that could happen, even if its improbable. It just can't be IMPOSSIBLE! If we've done our work well, our charators are multi-faucet people of depth...get inside their heads... make THEM figure it out!
Ask why...how...where...would they do this thing? What would motivate them? Inhibit them, ect.
When we get the perception down we'll more clearly see the story from the perspective of our charators and more critically, our readers.
So what is writers wreckage you ask? Composition debris...especially when we're on fire! We all have these at some point ...plot holes, unresolved threads, inconstancies in charator or story. Too much filler...too little dialouge or anything that fails to progress or more importantly, drops the reader OUT OF THE STORY!
As the creators of our worlds we take liberties with reality and thats ok...to a point BUT when we sacrifice believability simply because its convienant or it "makes" the story work, we cheat ourselves and our readers. A hard core criminal suddenly has a change of heart and becomes compassionate for a stranger...a little old lady takes down a SWAT team...a top notch investagator 'forgets' a basic procedure. These are real scenes from published works, that made me (and many others, by the reviews) pause and throw the red BS flag!
It didn't sound real...it was a wave of the magic wand...the whole thing was a dream kindia resolution that drives readers AWAY.
As writers we know what the backstory is...we KNOW how these things happened and have rationalized it; to. by. damn. WORK! This is why it's vitally important to get an outside perspective. Let a Beta reader, a trusted colleague, someone you trust to give you unbiased feedback, and to review your work before you send it for submission. In the fictional genre, probability is the meat of our stories...what IF, is our hook...that which sets our stories apart and makes them uniquely our own.
What we must not do is give in to the temptation of finishing by taking the easy path...find a solution that could happen, even if its improbable. It just can't be IMPOSSIBLE! If we've done our work well, our charators are multi-faucet people of depth...get inside their heads... make THEM figure it out!
Ask why...how...where...would they do this thing? What would motivate them? Inhibit them, ect.
When we get the perception down we'll more clearly see the story from the perspective of our charators and more critically, our readers.
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Tuesday, February 3, 2015
Endurance
When we think of endurance, many things come to mind. Sports, fitness and even relationships are often connected to that term. So what is endurance? The definition is more complicated than you may think...
Enurance is the ability of an organism to exert itself and remain active for a long period of time, as well as its ability to resist, withstand, recover from and have immunity to trauma, wounds or fatigue.
As authors most of us know that to be successful, endurance isn't just handy catch phrase, it's a prerequisite! Only a tiny percentage of us will ever have the luxery of writing a single piece that becomes an instant sensation or a national best seller. For most of us, we need to be prepared for the long haul...to write consistantly, producing solid stories that we not only love but that are worthy of publication.
Think about it. When we send our work into the world several things will happen. Elation...that wonderful bliss of completion and satisfaction that comes from doing all that hard work. Doubt...usually followed by self recrimination. We asks ourselves..."Was it REALLY ready?" Of course there's also the aforementioned fatigue...and there WILL BE trauma...and wounds....so hang on! Not EVERYONE will enjoy your labors...nor should you expect them too. Visibility is difficult to obtain and even harder to maintain. Publishing is merely the first step in our journey!
Writing is with few exceptions; a solitary endeavor, so how does one build that endurance from within to "resist, withstand and recover?" The glib answer is to keep writing and that's true but it's also SO much more complicated than that!
With work, (most of us have 'real' jobs!) family, social commitments and the day to day necessities of simply living are exhaustive enough BUT add in writing schedules, research and that pesky but all important 'building a social media presence' thingy AND book promotions/sales and signing events.....ARE WE HAVING FUN YET?
So how DO we eat an elephant? Of course, one bite at a time! To build our writing endurance it's vital to set goals and task that are both realistic and obtainable. While its important to be consistent, its IMPERATIVE to balance your writing activities with experiences that will strenghten your writing immune system to critique, frustration and burn out.
Go to a seminar or workshop. Get togather with other authors ( or readers!) and have coffee. Toss around some ideas and swap stories, laugh and enoy yourself! Read. Then read some more...read outside your normal genre, volunteer at a library, VA or shelter to help with their literacy programs.
Be involved in something that helps to recharge and inspire your interest! Do these things....find that balance and your writing cannot help but get stronger and more relatable.
I guarantee you'll have more new ideas than you can shake a stick at AND your writing immune system while shrug off attacks like a pack of super hero's!
Enurance is the ability of an organism to exert itself and remain active for a long period of time, as well as its ability to resist, withstand, recover from and have immunity to trauma, wounds or fatigue.
As authors most of us know that to be successful, endurance isn't just handy catch phrase, it's a prerequisite! Only a tiny percentage of us will ever have the luxery of writing a single piece that becomes an instant sensation or a national best seller. For most of us, we need to be prepared for the long haul...to write consistantly, producing solid stories that we not only love but that are worthy of publication.
Think about it. When we send our work into the world several things will happen. Elation...that wonderful bliss of completion and satisfaction that comes from doing all that hard work. Doubt...usually followed by self recrimination. We asks ourselves..."Was it REALLY ready?" Of course there's also the aforementioned fatigue...and there WILL BE trauma...and wounds....so hang on! Not EVERYONE will enjoy your labors...nor should you expect them too. Visibility is difficult to obtain and even harder to maintain. Publishing is merely the first step in our journey!
Writing is with few exceptions; a solitary endeavor, so how does one build that endurance from within to "resist, withstand and recover?" The glib answer is to keep writing and that's true but it's also SO much more complicated than that!
With work, (most of us have 'real' jobs!) family, social commitments and the day to day necessities of simply living are exhaustive enough BUT add in writing schedules, research and that pesky but all important 'building a social media presence' thingy AND book promotions/sales and signing events.....ARE WE HAVING FUN YET?
So how DO we eat an elephant? Of course, one bite at a time! To build our writing endurance it's vital to set goals and task that are both realistic and obtainable. While its important to be consistent, its IMPERATIVE to balance your writing activities with experiences that will strenghten your writing immune system to critique, frustration and burn out.
Go to a seminar or workshop. Get togather with other authors ( or readers!) and have coffee. Toss around some ideas and swap stories, laugh and enoy yourself! Read. Then read some more...read outside your normal genre, volunteer at a library, VA or shelter to help with their literacy programs.
Be involved in something that helps to recharge and inspire your interest! Do these things....find that balance and your writing cannot help but get stronger and more relatable.
I guarantee you'll have more new ideas than you can shake a stick at AND your writing immune system while shrug off attacks like a pack of super hero's!
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Friday, September 5, 2014
Web interview
I just interviewed with Erik Van Mechelen on writing your first novel. Check it out here:
http://www.shakeup.tv/translate-world-travel-martial-arts-first-novel-jim-hellvig/
http://www.shakeup.tv/translate-world-travel-martial-arts-first-novel-jim-hellvig/
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Tuesday, July 8, 2014
Maintenance
It starts the moment we draw our
first breath and continues even beyond our existence. Without it, civilization
crumples and biology’s fail. We’re educated and trained in this multi-faceted
art form throughout our lives and most never give it more than a passing
thought. I’m speaking of maintenance of course!
Think about it…our homes, cars, bodies,
relationships… everything in this
world requires regular maintenance. Even when properly serviced most things
deteriorate but when neglected …well
sooner or later expect the catastrophic!
As a professional electrical
maintenance technician, I thought myself well versed in the methodology BUT
after consideration I realized I’d committed the cardinal sin for someone in my
profession…I ASSUMED!
In my writing life, I mistakenly
ASSUMED that as long as I continued to write
I was maintaining, right? WRONG! Writing is the operation! It’s the function or the work of the process it’s NOT
maintenance! So…how does one preform maintenance on a craft? There are no lube
points…no fluids…no electrical nor mechanical checks…Hmmmm.
For starters, on a regular basis I
suggest you challenge your skillsets…do writing prompts that take you far
beyond your comfort zone. They needn’t be long exercises but they should take you down paths you normally
wouldn’t tread.
Attending seminars and conferences
is another maintenance must! Not only
will it tune your writing engine but it will also enable you to build a rapport
with like-minded folks and other professionals in the industry.
Too often as writers and human
beings we ‘circle the wagons’ drawing ourselves into a tight knit, small
cluster of people, limiting our exposure to the dreaded unfamiliar. If you truly wish to empower your writing, open
yourself to new experiences, places and people!
It’s like dumping high-octane booster into your fuel tank…you’ll get MORE
POWER! OOOH---OOOH----OOOH!!!
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Thursday, July 3, 2014
Being Social On Media....
Being Social On Media
It’s everywhere these
days AND we're told, "It really IS necessary!" As authors, words are
our chosen conduit for expression. We devote enormous amounts of time and
energy to it, we craft and we mold, chipping away until we agonizingly send our
'darlings' into the world...but the world has changed.
Publishers today require more of
their writers. Platforms, forums, followers, networking and the list go on.
Why? Partially because the digital age has made self-publishing easier than
ever. Today’s readers have more choices then ever, which makes finding your
book akin to finding the proverbial needle.
So in publishing houses of all
sizes, they require a…presence.
Facebook…Twitter…Pinterest…Google+…sound
familiar? It can be overwhelming.
Setting up profiles, what content to add, getting followers?! ARGHHHH!!!!
While I would agree that such
profiles can be helpful and can generate word of mouth for your
books, finding a balance will be
challenging. Spending too much time takes you away from what you should be
doing…writing your next book!
Indulging in repetitive
self-promotion will quickly get you ignored or even BLOCKED! I suggest a few simple things.
1.
Concentrate on ONLY one or two
sites, making scheduled and relevant updates weekly or even monthly.
2.
Share things with your audience besides your product!
3.
Social means just that…you MUST
remember that this is a PUBLIC forum… Ranting, raving or responding to negative
feedback cannot happen!
4.
Breathe deeply and let it go.
The technology is here to stay
folks…while we may not all embrace it; it’s a tool like any other. How you use
it and how often are up to you.
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Friday, April 18, 2014
When stuck in a rut....
When stuck in a rut…
We are all at some level, creatures
of habit. Routines and regular schedules are comforting and even necessary for our daily existence. Its
how we get things done in a timely fashion BUT every adult (and most teens!)
have felt ‘stuck’ at one point or another in life.
We become bored with the sameness of it all! While it’s not
practical (and unwise) to change some of the major routines in our life like work,
school, commute, ect. We should
strive to shake things up in other areas. Not only is this healthy, it can give
us a fresh perspective and a renewed vigor in our endeavors.
Einstein said:
Doing the same thing and expecting a
different result is the definition of insanity.
When it comes to our writing and
our efforts to market and publish our works, this quote is especially apt.
There is no magic bullet, no secret path to becoming a successful author. It’s
consistency, attention to detail, WORK! Sounds suspiciously like a rut…BUT IT
DOESN’T HAVE TO BE!
While there are exceptions, most
professional (full time, paid) authors compile a volume of work over a decade,
(YUP, 10 years!) building their
platforms and reader bases until they begin earning a modest living. So what
can we do to avoid the dreaded RUT?
Diversify! Write in as many genres
as interest you. Do freelance copywriting. Write short stories. Attend
conferences and seminars…HOST a seminar! Speak publically and do signings. Giveaways,
newspapers, libraries, volunteer events, everything
can be a marketing opportunity.
Perhaps more importantly, NEVER
stop learning! Experience new things and challenge yourself not just in your
writing but also in your day-to-day living! If you have a fear conquer it! Do
you have a dream or a secret desire? Then set concrete goals and chase that dream!
Nothing is impossible if approached
with the determination, desire and willingness to work steadily towards its
completion.
The only difference in a successful
author (person) and a failed one is simply this…successful people never give up!
You’ll be rejected…told no…feel
disheartened…so what? EVERY SINGLE successful person has experienced this too!
Keep swinging…. sooner or later that bat’s gonna connect and when it does….
well… that’s a whole new kindia rut
to get used to!
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Saturday, February 22, 2014
Amazing Grace, FREE weekend!
Be sure to grab your FREE copy of my thriller Amazing Grace this weekend and the next here: http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B006ZPQYNQ
What's it about?
What's it about?
It’s about being pushed to the
brink...to the breaking point, then discovering that if you want to, there are other paths. Life is change…and change is pain.
Special forces Major, Tammy Fuller
knows this firsthand. As former delta force commander she’s given all she has.
Despondent and medically retired Tammy drifts without purpose until a
chance encounter with a child presents her with a painful choice.
“Life
is change….and change is pain.”
With each new challenge her heart
is slowly healed and her spirit restored. Redemption seems possible…but turning
the other cheek has never been her strong point.
A series of events inexorably draw
Tammy back into a world she thought she’d left behind and she will need all of
her former skills and experiences to survive.
Review and comments are always welcome and thanks in advance for the look.
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Sunday, February 9, 2014
The Letters of Love
Four letters. L-O-V-E… As many
meanings as there are people. A simple word, conveying such complexities…what
other word can explain such opposing acts?
Stories of heroism and heinous
atrocities are done in its pursuit.
That single emotion that both makes us grand and reveals our vilest
nature can equally elate and destroy those it touches but without it…ahhh…that
absence is the essence of abyss.
The paths we travel are chosen no
matter the motivator. Use the loftiest of your desires to anchor your journey…For
L-Laughter, limitless, lighthearted, lustrous and lavish. For O- open, optimistic, overjoyed, original
and opulent. V is for- victorious, vigilant, vivid, virtuous and vital. E
should be- enduring, enchanting, enthusiastic, empowered and empathic.
Living fully means embracing that
which burns. Hold it close. Bask in the glow for as long as it’s given.
Squirrel it away for those November days that come for us all. On the chilliest
day, in the darkest night, that burning ember that cannot be extinguished will
carry us through to face the dawn.
Beware of complicity…of
complacency. Take nothing for granted, for what is easily given can also be
lost. Be aware of the simplicity and the power of uttering that single word.
Treasure and administer it carefully so as not to diminish it’s meaning.
Given freely it grows and flourishes,
sinking deep roots that can weather any storm. Transcending age, language,
social status and nationality those four letters wield elemental force with the
wonders of magic and the music of angels.
Live with love and love what you
live.
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